Some call it closed circles, beating other tests, some more close chapters ... no matter what you call ... the important thing is to do and it is not easy .. in fact it is something complikdo ... q say the busk is and often do not see what really busk q ... It's easy to say but no one tells you how, every one who finds his way ... but although I have no manual for what to do ... q q I q I DO NOT do is: - To think that is the only door in the world, there are more q we have not chance to see ... Sometimes the door has something unique, like the door to Boo Monsters Inc. (hehe sorry, I d disney movies), it is difficult to detach the door xq q we will not find an equal and really will not, xq kda gate s different ... But perhaps there are wonderful things and new q can find in it no other q and q
rule 1. Q THINK IS THE ONLY DOOR q ...- Another thing we must do is to dwell on what is known as q Word Questions ... How? Where? When? What? and above all WHY? q since they often do not find some other solution and the q d econtramo most want to hear ... so
rule and torment 2 NO WONDER WHETHER THE BRAIN ...- Comparing ourselves with others that if they are in the situation we would like, maybe if you have partners, or a good job, or something q left us and we would like again ... xq and think others have it and we do not ...
RULE 3: Do not envy (xq is envy gentlemen! jajaja aunq deny it) WHAT OTHERS HAVE Q, x two issues: one, xq q may not be what you really wanted and two, xq kda person gets things at the right time q should be, not before or after ... x example, if you envy a friend's relationship with her boyfriend, maybe if you'll see q background is a relationship I do not know ... co-dependent or custom, and it's really for you q aunq no want for your friend is well and in the second, xq muypronto now is give you that gift q ...- Something very important is not to be near door as possible ... CLOSE DOOR means away from the door, because being close we are tempted to want to reopen it and do not ... we can not afford, is a type of psychological drug ... if we are close is easier to fall so far as possible
4_ RULE KEEP DISTANCE AS POSSIBLE, otherwise one falls back ... tell me no, but if
RULE 5: NO BLACKMAIL OR ATTEMPTING TO FEEL BAD TO WHAT'S BEHIND THE DOOR ... many times we are so angry or sad, or combination thereof, we look for who is behind the door so feel, but we should not do that, it is valid angry and feel a bit sad but I think it is good to look the other person feel bad xq x things happen for a reason and maybe no one's fault or the fault of the two parts if you lose a job ... do not take it out with the boss, but who will recommend next? If you fought with your brother did not take it out with something you know will hurt, not like you do the same ... if you break up with someone, let it go, you do not hurt others ...
RULE 6: do not distract from the important things ... usually think much about that damn door and decentralized than what we have around, which is also our planet, not just what was on the other side of the door was our world, there are other variables that we must not forget family, friends , projects, and most importantly, one or the same (a) ... we can not afford to let go of important events by being immersed in the door thinking, not worth it ...
RULE 7: Lost in himself or herself. When we know what's on the other door and we love, we love, we love, draws us ... we are surrounded by a magical cloak that we do not know where it comes from, usually we get carried away, but say no, we're becoming to the way we propose ... and sometimes we forget what we really want our desires disguising illusions of what is best, for example if we end up in a job (or y reason) we should think about whether we were happy at work, if it is q really wanted for our life and not q believe that everything we had there, like money, is what really buskbamos q ... maybe more ... I q buskbamos is difficult to get a job these days and in this country but if we lose one there q try to find one that can adapt as we can alo ... Another example is in a relationship with someone (in the way it is, friends, lovers ...) xq captivates us and we miss that person ... we know new things, but know there are q x losing valuable things inside us.
RULE 8: Do not obsess. Many times our minds or our hearts we tend many traps ... not want to see what it is and seek an explanation for what happens, it snaps, it snaps like a puzzle ... and then we just look absurd explanations at the bottom to open the door again ... so no ... we must not fall into these traps and if you do fall for humanity q shapes us, we try to leave as soon as possible.
RULE 9: DO NOT TAKE THE EASY WAY. Closing a door is very difficult, not impossible but it is difficult, so usually we go for the easy way ... and the easy way may mean something different for everyone ... ie q someone lost a job of your dreams it is easier not to look for another job may not find q xq create something equal, but maybe find a better job or perhaps no, but that is q x stand at the door of the past, another example is someone you loved so much q to another person and is waiting with nothing to do, just waiting to see if the door opens the other person ... another way easy it is for a person who has fallen in love and I have done something (means quit, cheat, bla bla) want to do the same as a revenge, it is easier to live angry and lash out at everyone you deal with things ... another easy way is you fall in love with a friend and not want to believe q suffer sooner or later end up together, when q is not well know ... there are different ways for different situations to take the easy way and do not do it because at first we do not realize that the easy and short way makes us come back to the beginning of long and difficult ...
RULE 10: NO WE MUST COMPLY WITH LITTLE. And finally in my opinion, aunq may miss more things is not satisfied with the door is slightly open to see a little light, if that door can not be opened should be closed permanently and not be content with half-open perhaps closing the door can open another better, if it is a person, maybe close the door of a relationship and open another door to another kind of relationship but it must be gradual ... let things happen, emotions q be changing, is really what we want and not the shadow of what we wanted.
is my small hand bag in times of need, I wrote about 3 years ago and still believe in my rules = p greetings to all
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