I started to write my thesis at the moment but yesterday there was much talk on Twitter about gay adoption, I read several opinions ... 5 tweets wrote about it, literally so:
1. I have read different and even opposing views on adopciongay in my TL, I just tell you this: 1, I ask the same respect and
2. The 2nd if we consider q q x gays adopted children discriminated against ourselves not by our actions we promote
3. 3rd q I love is free and human, gay or straight, nothing determines the q're good or bad parent and
4. The 4th that the process will be = long to gay and straight q # I hope we looked rather like being a more tolerant society
5. to find reasons to discredit it, the family is backbone of society but there are a variety of them as each one is different # digoyo
I stated in my third tweet believe in free love and human freedom ... that is free? which is freedom? recently told a "Someone" who could not be "something" because of its remoteness and my current interests, when I said I was "free" to meet someone else and that I was, I answered a question what is to be free? in that case, I wanted him to understand was that there was going to take the plane "give me my space and time" as he is waiting and I'm still the same, I did not fair but he apparently misunderstood this ... I said that "freedom" was a word that should be used carefully because it could be "cheap philosophy anybody else who says to another neighbor's son" ... That was never my intention ... if anything I boast is that I always try use words as best I can ...
Freedom implies a respect for my actions and desires of others, believe it not as a possession but as a person, human being (although I think I understood because he finished telling me " egolatra) okay, what to see this with gay adoption? Twitter
I read some mention that "a child is not a toy that is going to buy the supermarket", to be served the interests of the child, who surely suffer teasing at school for being adopted by a gay couple ( men or women, as the case may be) and admit that children when they want to be cruel, very cruel ... You tell me that some girls when I was in 5th primary made me mourn ... that is true, are cruel when they want to be but where do they learn? no idea they came from nothing, of course not and do not wash your hands ...
How to teach my nephews pretend respect for the environment if you throw a vile speck on the street? How do I teach my nephews that do not pollute if I use the car to go to the store? ... example, actions ... self should promote respect for others ... okay, I have no children ... I often have said "until you're mother does not understand" ... ok, maybe they are right, but what I am and what I believe will be present when and I intend to show them the respect to be free ... education received at home, do not want to charge to school teachers and parents what they get ... let sexist jokes, accusations of "different" from the "weird" ... Who said it was normal? perhaps it is normal that girls I become anorexic or bulimic to meet the standard of television? ... perhaps it is normal that the poor remain poor because they do not conform to the laws of the market? ... perhaps it is normal in this country politicians do not fulfill the campaign promises? ... perhaps it is normal not to stop reading the news on executions, kidnappings, assaults, riots? ... I think normal should also be a word to be used with extreme care ... because what is normal for you may not and vice versa for my
Ultimately I believe that we are not that different at all ... we are human beings, and that's what should count ... seniors, children, adolescents, women, men, gay, straight ... we are humans and we should see us well ... Children are cruel, yes ... but they are sincere and curious ... my 7 year old niece asked everything about everything and says with an honesty that would never be out ... must be tactful and diplomatic from time to time if ... but we seem to turn into adolescence, they teach us that to enter the adult world must act accordingly "be seriously, why wear masks ... with the edge of the youth we stop being afraid of children ...
not underestimate kids are smart ... explain that Mommy and Daddy is not the only existing family, just as there is diversity of children in each classroom there are different families ... what is normal for us might be strange to others and vice versa ... I like rice with lemon and my friend told me crazy, she eats cucumber with Caesar dressing and I said diuck ... but its taste and mine ... and just like something simple respect and respect me ... we should practice every day and in all our actions ... Who
agree with me great, who does not respect ... ah! spoke of respect because I missed my last tweet ... I used the word tolerant, but I think we should not tolerate but respect ... tolerate is more light for my taste, is how "tough" good ... could be a start but respect is definitely something more momentous ...
In conclusion (after my virtual parchment) is that children can be cruel but they are because they are smart, and if they are smart not to be underestimated, we have to explain ... and children without families think they could have the opportunity to have one standard? conventional good, normal and stuff do not know who the dictates ... Tarzan has ever seen? reminded me Disney's Tarzan I must admit ... Clearly there is much to do, I know there are things and new situations for several generations and I know because my parents did not agree on gay adoption and I have a cousin who it is, but sometimes it's up to the children try to our parents have a different perspective ... # digoyo
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PD. I understand that I need to work in many ways, starting with the media not to pigeonhole "what is and is not normal" ... but I believe that real change begins at home;)
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